The Power of Process-Oriented Coaching: Shifting Focus from Outcomes to Effort
- Neil Wattier
- Mar 9
- 4 min read
By: Neil Wattier, Mental Coach for Athletes, Parents, and Coaches
Winning often takes center stage in youth sports. Parents and coaches alike celebrate victories and lament losses. However, an overemphasis on outcomes can create pressure, anxiety, and burnout for young athletes. Instead of fostering a love for the game, this outcome-driven mindset can lead athletes to measure their worth solely by wins and statistics.
A process-oriented approach shifts the focus to effort, improvement, and mastery—elements that young athletes can control. This mindset builds resilience, confidence, and a long-term commitment to growth. For parents and coaches, encouraging process over outcomes helps athletes develop skills that translate beyond sports and into life.
"It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves."
– Sir Edmund Hillary
The Problem with an Outcome-Driven Mindset
Many young athletes are conditioned to define success by winning. While competition is valuable, an outcome-driven mindset has several downsides:
Loss of Motivation: When winning becomes the only goal, young athletes may lose interest if they don’t see immediate results.
Fear of Failure: Focusing only on outcomes makes athletes afraid to take risks or try new skills for fear of making mistakes.
Burnout and Stress: The pressure to win can lead to mental fatigue, anxiety, and even physical exhaustion.
Fixed Mindset: Young athletes may believe that talent is the only determinant of success, limiting their willingness to develop new skills through effort.
To create well-rounded, resilient athletes, coaches and parents must shift the focus to effort, progress, and learning rather than just winning and losing.
What is Process-Oriented Coaching?
Process-oriented coaching is a philosophy that prioritizes the journey over the destination. It emphasizes:
Effort: Encouraging athletes to give their best in every practice and game.
Consistency: Teaching the value of showing up and working hard regardless of results.
Skill Mastery: Helping athletes focus on fundamentals and gradual improvement, rather than instant success.
Growth Mindset: Reinforcing that abilities can be developed through hard work and perseverance.
When athletes embrace the process, they become more engaged, motivated, and resilient, setting them up for success not just in sports but in life.
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Strategies to Implement Process-Oriented Coaching
Praise Effort Over Results
Many young athletes associate praise with performance outcomes. While celebrating achievements is important, it’s crucial to acknowledge effort and progress as well.
Instead of saying: "Great job winning the game!"
Try: "I love the way you hustled and stayed focused throughout the game!"
By reinforcing effort, you encourage athletes to take ownership of their growth, regardless of the scoreboard.
Set Process-Based Goals
Outcome-based goals, such as winning a championship, are often beyond an athlete’s control. Instead, set goals focused on controllable factors like:
Improving sprint speed by 0.2 seconds over a month.
Increasing free throw shooting percentage through daily practice.
Perfecting footwork in a defensive drill.
These types of goals keep athletes motivated and engaged by measuring progress based on improvement, not just outcomes.
Reframe Failure as Growth
Young athletes need to see failure as an opportunity to learn and develop resilience. When they make a mistake, help them analyze it constructively:
Instead of: "You missed that shot. You need to do better."
Say: "What did you learn from that shot? What can you adjust next time?"
Teaching athletes failure is part of progress encourages them to take risks and challenge themselves.
Encourage Self-Reflection
Instead of providing all the answers, encourage athletes to evaluate their performance and improvement.
After a game, ask: "What did you do well today? What’s one thing you want to work on next practice?"
Before a training session, ask: "What’s your focus for today’s practice?"
This fosters self-awareness and accountability, helping young athletes take ownership of their development. Remember the phrase, "what does right look like." Even after a mistake or failure, focus more on what to do next time instead of what went wrong.
Shift the Car Ride Home Conversation
The ride home after a game is a crucial moment for young athletes. Instead of critiquing every play, focus on the bigger picture:
Ask: "What was the most fun part of the game?"
Praise: "I love watching you play. You worked really hard out there!"
Discuss: "What do you think went well? What’s something you’re excited to improve?"
This shifts the conversation from outcomes to enjoyment and growth, helping kids maintain their passion for the sport.
Model a Growth Mindset
Coaches and parents must lead by example. If young athletes see the adults around them embracing challenges, handling failure with composure, and valuing improvement, they will adopt the same approach.
Share personal stories about learning from mistakes.
Acknowledge when a strategy or approach needs adjustment.
Demonstrate patience and resilience when challenges arise.
The Long-Term Benefits of Process-Oriented Coaching
A process-focused approach develops young athletes who are:
✅ More resilient – They handle setbacks better and persist through challenges.
✅ More confident – They recognize their ability to improve and control their success.
✅ More engaged – They stay motivated because they see progress, even in small ways.
✅ Better teammates – They focus on effort and improvement rather than just personal achievements.
✅ More prepared for life – The skills of resilience, adaptability, and dedication carry over into academics, careers, and relationships.
Coaching and parenting young athletes isn’t just about winning games—it’s about helping them develop skills and mindsets that last a lifetime. By shifting from an outcome-based focus to a process-oriented approach, you create an environment where athletes can thrive mentally, physically, and emotionally.
Encourage effort, consistency, and mastery over results, and you’ll help young athletes not only reach their potential but also enjoy the journey of getting there. After all, success isn’t just about the scoreboard—it’s about who they become along the way.
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